pwner
April 17, 2014, 5:13pm
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Re: Insanely Jealous
Exactly. I love when women rationalize crap like this. Yes, there is a communication gap, and yes, the OP needs to talk to his wife, but to suggest that her behaviour is acceptable, or simply curiosity, is ridiculous. Curious makes you look something up once. She was repeatedly searching for another guy.
We while analyzing women : Awww … she is secretly thinking about someone else … poor girl … awww …
We while analyzing men : MOFO … how dare he emotionally cheat on his wife … F’en divorce his azz out of the this house … once a cheater always a cheater
All you women are doing a Nadz again. Defending the wrong idea because its a woman who is at fault.
That or you all secretly stalk your exes without telling your husbands and are defending it because you feel guilty.
Do not continue doing it please.
If a wife gets really upset about husband of 14 years having accessed her FB account, it only fans insecurity, lack of trust and suspicion.
If a woman meticulously guards her private stuff, it only causes her man to (rightly or wrongly) get suspicious. It is absolutely not a pleasant experience for a man, desi or not.
The thought process is like this: “If there is nothing to hide, why try so hard to hide?”. Even if she is hiding to not have his feelings hurt in any way.
That’s why I qualified my remark with “most women”. MA you have that super strong trusting relationship or you know your husband doesn’t have a past or has never shown any inclination in such matters, so you can joke about it. But looking up your ex that you may have had a serious relationship with multiple times a week for a consistent (x) number of weeks is disturbing in my opinion.
Dear All.
You are grossly generalizing/judging/hating/mysogynisticing and a thousand other things here :rolleyes;
Not All Guppans are like that (even if one doesn’t do this kinda thing, it takes away resposniblity from the whole lot)…
Lagay Raho.
Btw… why anyone hasn’t brought an islamic injuction prohibiting the husband from going through his wife’s facebook? SOmething like..“islamically its her choice whether she wants to stalk exes or not, husband has no right to question about it”