Insanely Jealous

[Scherbatsky]

Re: Insanely Jealous

@Stork

A few things have really been bothering me lately and I can’t discuss these with people I know because of the nature of topic. I’d really appreciate some feedback from folks here.
I’ve been married for a while now and it’s been generally a happy marriage. My wife’s had a relationship in the past which she told me about before we got married. I’ve never asked her details about it but it has always bothered me. The less I know, the more blanks I try to fill in myself, which hasn’t exactly been a healthy exercise for me. Anyways, long story short, I’ve tried to forget and move on with more important things in life.
A couple of weeks ago, she left her facebook page open and curiosity got the best of me. I went to her activity log and checked her search log. She had been regularly searching for her ex (three four times a week). I searched through her messages and it doesn’t seem like they’ve been exchanging messages (or they may have been deleted). The guy is not in her friends list either.
**Now I don’t know what to do or how to feel. If I confront her, the first thing she’s going to do is to get really upset about me going through her account. **I admit I shouldn’t have done it. However, the whole episode has touched a raw nerve and I can’t seem to think about anything else.
Thank god for anonymous questions and thanks everyone in advance for your response.

Someone steals your stuff and you happen to find out after going through their purse - which was lying open in front of you in the first place - who should be the one getting more upset?