Insanely Jealous

[Ghost14]

Re: Insanely Jealous

@partyslims

**hmmm would most women be okay if they found out by snooping (after being married a number of years) that their husband was doing this? **I don’t think so. But with the responses I see here it’s made to feel like “oh, no big deal”. And I think that comes off as somewhat of a double standard. It’s one thing to be curious, and wanna know about someone you were close to at one point.; but to be doing it 3-4 times a week (as OP has said his wife is doing) , it’s borderline stalking. If it was a one or two off, I would agree, no big deal. But if it’s a pattern then that’s troubling.

But to the OP, you’re in a bit of a quandary aren’t you? Cause you’ll get crap for snooping, or you live with the doubt.

It’s best to let go. I guess it all depends on the level of trust you have in her.

Exactly. I love when women rationalize crap like this. Yes, there is a communication gap, and yes, the OP needs to talk to his wife, but to suggest that her behaviour is acceptable, or simply curiosity, is ridiculous. Curious makes you look something up once. She was repeatedly searching for another guy.