Inlaws tagging along on honeymoon

[Sehrysh]

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Honestly, I've never heard of in-laws wanting to tag along.

The discussion is quite pointless. I love how people are attacking in-laws without even thinking about how realistic the scenario really is.

Oh Philo, this scenario is NOT unrealistic! It's happened to many a new bride. And in many cases it was because amma/baba go ghoomnay ka shauq tha, not because they were sick and wanted to spend time with their son.

[Krypton]

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:S That's bizarre and hard to believe. LOL.

[Reha]

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jab sasso maa paanch paanch laakh ka zevar mounh dikhai main de rahi hoti hain, tab yeah pyar bura nahi lugta

Hawww. Saasu maa ko kisne kaha paanch laak ka zevar dene ke liye? Ive never been one of those girls...could care less what the in-laws gift me. I think my ex's mom gave me one set, one ring and one bracelet at the wedding and took it back afterwards to keep it "safe". My own jewelry and clothes are enough for me, thankyouverymuch.

[BarbieCue]

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I want to start off my married life with an optimistic outlook. I don’t care if the inlaws invade our honeymoon, I’m not going to hold grudges and be bitter about it for the rest of my life. We’ll have plenty of honeymoons together InshaAllah. dupatta mein sharmaying

[Enigmatic]

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@BarbieCue

I want to start off my married life with an optimistic outlook. I don’t care if the inlaws invade our honeymoon, I’m not going to hold grudges and be bitter about it for the rest of my life. We’ll have plenty of honeymoons together InshaAllah. dupatta mein sharmaying

hehe easier said than done

[Sara516]

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Good point.

Islamically (I think) its better to stay close to your family then to go away on a trip that does not add any value in your life in the long term.

I mean, its not that the couples who did not go on honeymoon cant have a happy marriage, similarly its not that the couples who went on honeymoons did not experience divorce.

That's a good point.

Before I married I had suggested to him that we can always have the honeymoon later, we can stay closeby or go on a short weekend trip...

Well we had the honeymoon any way, and I'm glad we did, because things happened later that would've made it impossible to go

I think we got lucky, we had time to spend with each other and wtih the in laws.

[BarbieCue]

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@Enigmatic

hehe easier said than done

Yeah I have a feeling

But honestly, I have been taking life too seriously thus far. I want marriage to bring a positive change in me and I would want to run far away from phaddas this early in my married life y’know? I don’t know what the probability is of my inlaws wanting to tag along on our honeymoon (I have never seen it happen to anyone in my circle of family and friends) but if they do, I’ll put up with it since I don’t want any bitterness wo bhi shaadi k foran baad.

[redvelvet]

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Does anybody else besides me find the notion of in-laws tagging along to be.....Paindu? And I know Paindu means different thing to people and some might find the term offensive. But it seems Paindu to me, LOL.

I've never seen or heard of that happen. Even really conservative people...from our grandparents generation didn't tag along, LOL.

[TLK]

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@philosophy

Honestly, I’ve never heard of in-laws wanting to tag along.
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http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/245070-in-laws-spoiling-your-honeymoon.html

:rolling eyes:

TLK: 1
Philosophy: 0

[Krypton]

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^it's : rolleyes :

TLK-1
Phil-1

and basically you are recycling life1 threads on purpose. interesting.

[TLK]

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^it's : rolleyes :

TLK-1 Phil-1

and basically you are recycling life1 threads on purpose. interesting.

every thread/topic of life1 is a recycled thread/topic

TLK-2
Phil-1

[Mirch]

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Would it bother you if they do?

question if for both guys and gals.

I mean, honeymoon is not just a romantic excursion but also a time to get to know your spouse better. If family is coming along, here is your chance to know them better too, right?

Only if it is a Brady Bunch kind of marriage.

[Enigmatic]

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every thread/topic of life1 is a recycled thread/topic

TLK-2 Phil-1

the vicious circle of life ...life1 :p

[Deeba1234]

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Funny how the guys who think it's no big deal to have their parents come on honeymoon with them would prob throw a fit if their mums tried to tag along on a trip away with their mates..

[TLK]

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^ funny that you are comparing an addition in the family (wife) to a mate.

[ll_xx_ll]

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I would never be happy with the in laws or even my own family tagging along for that matter…shaadi k fauran baad is a romantic period of time…he can spend time with his family after my 5-day honeymoon but i get my honeymoon first cuz i just married him newly-wed bride k kuch khwaab hote hain kuch desires hote hain at least respect those

@Reha

All of you girls are selfish…WHY cant this be family time ONLY? WHY do you want SEPARATE time with your husband? He is after all a son and brother to others too. What about them?

separate karne ko kisne kaha hai…its just honeymoon=romance on the beach in the living room, on the porch on the street and to have ppl tag along at that time …is ugh!!!

@TLK

so the couple who went on honeymoon would never get divorced, right? But they do. That means that the added value was either fake or temporary.

and they never got a time alone …so its their way of getting back at the society

WAH WAH mere bhai kya zabardast logic hai…by that token I have decided that a nikkah karne ki kya zarurat hai its not like couples who had a nikkah never get divorced hai na? but live-in relationship karoge toh divorce ka koi chance hi nahin…kyun sahi hai na?

really it depends on the personality too i guess of the individuals who make up the couple…maybe for some people it wouldnt bother them…it would bother me because of my own personality…im extremely private and extremely shy…even in front of my own family…i would be too embarrassed to hold the guys hand in front of his or my parents..i’d be too shy to go into our room in front of anyone…it goes against every part of my personality…for me it would be a huge deal simply because of the fact that im very private and shy.

[TLK]

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e k kuch khwaab hote hain kuch desires hote hain.

achcha baba, aa ga'ee baat samajah main ..

chalo jao aur thandi lassi pee'o

WAH WAH mere bhai kya zabardast logic hai....by that token I have decided that a nikkah karne ki kya zarurat hai its not like couples who had a nikkah never get divorced hai na? but live-in relationship karoge toh divorce ka koi chance hi nahin...kyun sahi hai na? :p .

Nikah tou sunnat hai meri behen. Honeymoon ka hukm kis hadees main he, wo dikhaa dain please.

[webmister]

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TLK, did you have nightmares of this scenario? :D

I have never heard anything like that happening even in Pakistan.

[TLK]

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I did not even have a honeymoon dude, forget about inlaws coming with us .. :D

hum tou old school loug hain ..

[webmister]

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I did not even have a honeymoon dude, forget about inlaws coming with us .. :D

hum tou old school loug hain ..

So you can have it now. Trust me, the in-laws won't come :D