Inlaws tagging along on honeymoon

[ehl-e-chamman]

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@TLK

**Would it bother you if they do? **

question if for both guys and gals.

I mean, honeymoon is not just a romantic excursion but also a time to get to know your spouse better. If family is coming along, here is your chance to know them better too, right?

Yes. It would be VERY awkward.

says who??? … honeymoon is a period of getting to know your partner romantically only. We have the rest of our lives to get to know the rest of their(non-romantic) side … and their families for that matter!

[Reha]

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All of you girls are selfish…WHY cant this be family time ONLY? WHY do you want SEPARATE time with your husband? He is after all a son and brother to others too. What about them?

[Sehrysh]

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@Reha

All of you girls are selfish…WHY cant this be family time ONLY? WHY do you want SEPARATE time with your husband? He is after all a son and brother to others too. What about them?

We are selfish aren’t we We don’t deserve to marry into a good families.

[Enigmatic]

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you would have a lifetime to get to know your spouse and the family … and am sure with the family around on the honeymoon - the getting to know phase would just be drowned amongst sheer akwardness and ‘ji aap pehle ..aap pehle’

not to mention the obvious distance too wont help much

[TLK]

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@Afshi

they dont have to have a honeymoon right away. sint she going back to usa with him?

also even for a night or two in a hotel and sair sher around the town is good - in this situation.

@Sehrysh

Then he should delay the honeymoon trip until after he’s back from vacation. Take a few weekends for just the wife and husband (since he’s out of vacation entitlement). And when he’s with his parents - be with the parents, ghoomnay ki kya zaroorat hay - amma abba ki tabiyat pehlay say hi theek nahin, ghumnay say aur bhi kharaab hojayaga.

What if she is not coming back to USA with him right away

and its easy for you two to say ke honemoon can be delayed but how many of you would not taunt your hubby for the rest of his life ke “o ho. maa baap ke wajah se mera honeymoon cancel ker diya” and wont refer to him as mama’s boy.

@ZareenKhan

Infact i am of the opinion that before or after the honeymoon, the couple should take time to have a family trip too in order to get close and just have a good time together :).

I 100% believe that someone has hacked into your account.

[ehl-e-chamman]

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@Reha

All of you girls are selfish…WHY cant this be family time ONLY? WHY do you want SEPARATE time with your husband? He is after all a son and brother to others too. What about them?

yes … we are bad bad girls … how dare we take away a son from their parents. its so unislamic! … parents clearly have dibs on them at all times …
oh woe is us … how will we ever repent?

[ZareenKhan]

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@TLK

I 100% believe that someone has hacked into your account.

Why?

[TLK]

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@ehl-e-chamman

Yes. It would be VERY awkward.

says who??? … honeymoon is a period of getting to know your partner romantically only. We have the rest of our lives to get to know the rest of their(non-romantic) side … and their families for that matter!

No one does “romance” on streets. Family aap ke saath kamray main to nahi hai naa. Wahan romance ker lenaa

[NomiCA]

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why is honeymoon so important???

is there any islamic requirement to do a honeymoon??

[Reha]

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I am telling you all…I am inviting the entire kunba when I get married. Sab aao…saat apne bachon ko bhi leke aao. Koi naani, dadi ya tayi rehgayi to unko bhi leke aao.

Sabko pooray honeymoon ke liye ek kamray mein band kardungi…time spend karna hai na? Lo dekho apne lakhtay jigar ka mukhra aglay paanch din ke liye. And I will get massages, mani-pedis, shop, go scuba diving, etc all by myself with a gorgeous scuba instructor.

[TLK]

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@NomiCA

why is honeymoon so important???

is there any islamic requirement to do a honeymoon??

Good point.

Islamically (I think) its better to stay close to your family then to go away on a trip that does not add any value in your life in the long term.

I mean, its not that the couples who did not go on honeymoon cant have a happy marriage, similarly its not that the couples who went on honeymoons did not experience divorce.

[TLK]

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@Reha

I am telling you all…I am inviting the entire kunba when I get married. Sab aao…saat apne bachon ko bhi leke aao. Koi naani, dadi ya tayi rehgayi to unko bhi leke aao.

Sabko pooray honeymoon ke liye ek kamray mein band kardungi…time spend karna hai na? Lo dekho apne lakhtay jigar ka mukhra aglay paanch din ke liye. And I will get massages, mani-pedis, shop, go scuba diving, etc all by myself with a gorgeous scuba instructor.

shabash larki .. aap ke mashriqi khayalat sun ke mogambo khush hu’aa

[LucyMay]

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@ZareenKhan

Dramey tu nahi kar rahi thi?

Well its weird WHY would the inlaws want to tag along? Like really! It would definately bother me and boy, what a ROCKING start it would be .

Can anyone come up with a single valid reason for this to make any sense? I wonder if this really happens nowadays and if it does then WHY?

Seriously! WHY would they want to come along? I would have been extremely weirded out if my in laws had accompanied us.
Honeymoon is for the husband and wife to connect, outside of social/family pressures and expectations. There are plenty of other occasions when I can get to know his family!

[ehl-e-chamman]

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@TLK

No one does “romance” on streets. Family aap ke saath kamray main to nahi hai naa. Wahan romance ker lenaa

No??? … so you’ve never seen newly weds in public hanging on to each other, kissing … holding hands … giggling???

time spent (even quality time) with extended family hardly sets the stage/mood for romance! … after all brain is the biggest sexual organ …

[Theorist]

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Definition of honeymoon: a vacation or trip taken by a newly married couple.

[yourfriend]

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@TLK

**What if she is not coming back to USA with him right away

**and its easy for you two to say ke honemoon can be delayed but how many of you would not taunt your hubby for the rest of his life ke “o ho. maa baap ke wajah se mera honeymoon cancel ker diya” and wont refer to him as mama’s boy.

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in that case he should be even more considerate about her and spend whatever time he can have with her rather than with his parents… did he not spend his all life with his parents…? maa baap ko saari mohabat aakhir inn hi 5days main kiyon dikhani hai?

[LucyMay]

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@TLK

Guy went home from USA on a 3 week vacations to get married. 1 week left for him to come back to USA and they are planning to go on a 5 day honeymoon trip. As much as the guy is loving his new wife, he also wants to spend some more time with his ailing mother and father as he is not sure when would he be able to come back to Pakistan. Also he knows that because of the health of his parents, they wont be able to visit USA anytime soon.

Reason good enough for you?

In that case they should spend time together as a family, and not call it honeymoon. They can always go for their honeymoon once they’re back in the US.

[Sehrysh]

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@Reha

I am telling you all…I am inviting the entire kunba when I get married. Sab aao…saat apne bachon ko bhi leke aao. Koi naani, dadi ya tayi rehgayi to unko bhi leke aao.

Sabko pooray honeymoon ke liye ek kamray mein band kardungi…time spend karna hai na? Lo dekho apne lakhtay jigar ka mukhra aglay paanch din ke liye. And I will get massages, mani-pedis, shop, go scuba diving, etc all by myself with a gorgeous scuba instructor.

And I think the suhaag raat can wait until after he’s done with the family reunion as well.

[Decent_6Chora]

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Sure why not. In fact it will be good if sasoo ma can knock the door and provide mid-night snack too

[Theorist]

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^ hmm interesting I was sure it included inlaws. Guess I am wrong