Look at Ashwaiyria shes living with her inlaws so can u Suhaina.just think it this way that when u r little u hav to live with ur parents n siblings whether u like them or not same with inlaws u hav to live with them n make it possible in any way u can.think of no way out that will make u more compromising. giv ur hubby some time n space to think abt this idea of moving out.its just not gonna be any easy step for him or other family members.mostly when girls r married in a joint family it takes a good 5-10 yrs b4 they move out.so just hang on n be patient.
ash lives in a separate building next to her inlaws...also..i doubt she is expected to cook, clean, and pick after everyone in the house....but thats besides the point...filmy families and regular families have different issues...and deal with them differently...i am sure your inlaws will not take you kissing and hugging "paraya" mard... well.....so lets not compare filmistan bahus with the thread opener.. :)
if you knew you were going to be living with inlaws before you got married..or engaged..and were ok with it then...you are technically expected to be ok with it now...unless something horrible has happened since then.... (??) whats the root of your complaint?