actually when we got engaged we decided to live in seprate home after wedding even my inlaws was fine this thing but things changed..situation changed my sisters in laws got married and moved. one unmarried sis in law went to dubai for some job..my jeth got expired ad her wife went to her parents..my dewar got a nice job in lahore he moved there with family..another jeth bought a home and moved there so my hubby left in home...so he said how can i leave my parents...
in addition as their two beloved sons left them they dont wanat lose this son....they are grabing him hard and brain washing him... actually i dunno what problem i have...actually living with some one is hard u need to care about their feelings their comfort..
if u wana sleep late or u like to sleep latee...or u wana go out but u cant go or u need to take yr inlws with u ...if u dont wana clean dishes ,clean home for a while wana do later..but they want that their super bahu do all at that time...if u wana eat mutton and they wana make chicken for lunch..
if u wana watch tv in your bedroom but u have to sit in louge with yr inlaws as yr inlaws dont feel lonely.. u bought some thing for u i mean eatable things but u have to share with your inlaws and list is on.....
If he doesn't want to leave his parents he can still get a seperate house and have his parents live with u in your house, totally changes the dynamics imo cos it will be ur roof so (hopefully) more ur way of living. I know this is what a lot of Arab couples do, wife can still have all her private space but elderly parents are not left to fend for themselves. They are more likely to let u get on with life, how u want to dress, eating out at restaurants just u and hubby etc. all the stuff couples should be able to do..