Re: Inlaws not so happy with me visiting mt family abroad..need advice
^ The thing is, if I was her husband, I would feel she was being overly dramatic too, because he stood up to his parents, upset them, and still she just went ahead and did what they asked. What was the point in his interfering? All she did was make him look bad.
Re: Inlaws not so happy with me visiting mt family abroad..need advice
In their heads..* My mil has said many times in my face that I have tiny eyes and also sil :s and they say it btw. Right after a week of my wedding my sil told me their relatives thought I wasn't pretty enough. I dont care if I am pretty or not. The point is WHY would you tell something like this to your bhhabi? I feel like a loser. My mil doesn't like me mingling with others or making frds outside hubbys circle n honestly I dnt hav any frrds here inpk. I m so llonely that I m sharing stuff over the Internet. My mil sayswhy do I need frds when I have her n sil. God they just want to stick to me.
They are just being jealous. Some people do that to their bahu's ke you are less good looking than our son to make the girl worthless and make her feel inferior. Its a psychological tactic.
Re: Inlaws not so happy with me visiting mt family abroad..need advice
^ The thing is, if I was her husband, I would feel she was being overly dramatic too, because he stood up to his parents, upset them, and still she just went ahead and did what they asked. What was the point in his interfering? All she did was make him look bad.
^ I completely agree! It makes the husband look bad if she asks him for help, and then turns around the supports the "other side"!
Re: Inlaws not so happy with me visiting mt family abroad..need advice
I did not support the other side. My inlaws know ut clearly I get intimidated by them. Why did they even ask me to go when hubby had asked them not to and yea he did not mention me not going to her room what he said was 'koi nai jaye ga uss k kamre main' when pil asked me to go. I didn't know what to say honestly. I did go down but once I came back I was very cold to them and did not speak to them or sil nicely eversince. They knoe I hated it. You know when they re having an argument like hubby n pil they tell me y dobt u teach ur hubby something. Yeah u couldn't teach him anything for 27 years and askibg me to do that. Okay its all my fault I am dramatic I let them control me ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Just waiting to go to parents and relax.