Re: Inlaws not so happy with me visiting mt family abroad..need advice
Do you not see that your nand not only disrespected you, but her own parents/family as well? She should have put a pardah on the negative comments her family made behind your back. But by telling you, she has hurt her family’s image/izzat. She cares neither for u nor her own family…so don’t take her seriously.
And you said nand will be getting married soon? If she can’t respect her own family’s izzat, she will struggle with respecting her future in-laws. Her mouth will get her into deeper trouble down the road with people who will have much lower tolerance/forgiveness level than her family. Don’t dwell on her badtameezi…in one ear and out the other…her ways and her parents’ laxity with her with come back to slap her n everyone real hard one day.