Re: Inlaws not so happy with me visiting mt family abroad..need advice
And that was a mistake. You should’ve shared your concerns with hubby from day one.
BTW, this was a love marriage…didn’t you know before marriage the type of life your hubby at home OR just how clingy his parents were to him? You two never talked about how type of life you two wanted AFTER marriage? 
For now go visit your parents for a few weeks and get away from all this tension. The break will be good for you.