yanzala
January 23, 2012, 4:59am
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Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress
it’s the little cinderella in all girls
we all want the perfect dress, the perfect jewelery the perfect makeup and a good photographer… we cud care less about the food the venue and other such things …i totally understand where you are coming from I know if i was in your shoes i would be extremely upset too
but i would like to say three things maybe you can show your husband pictures of 3 of the dresses you absolutely love and tell him ur fave colors for wedding and just say somehting like i dont want to interfere in you guys picking the dress and I have no issues but I would be very grateful to you(i.e. husband personally) if you at least kept in a mind a little bit what my choice is…afterall this is iA the first and last time im getting married
second thing i want to say is that ive seen pictures of countless brides on GS, ive been to countless weddings a lot of the times the girl had a say in how she looked on both days sometimes she didnt and some brides ended up in dresses they would have never chosen for themselves… sometime the dress by itself was hideous…BUT no matter how a dress has been ive NEVER seen a bride that didnt look absolutely stunning on her wedding day… if u end up hating the dress u will also be excessively self critical and thikn u look hideous but if u were able to get the honest opinion of all ppl present they would tell u the same thing i said because…when ur marrying the right guy and ur off to begin a new life the happiness of that event put an entirely unique beauty on the bride’s face …please remember that
lastly youve not even seen the dresses they got you yet and ur fretting over it …wouldnt you feel silly for putting urself through this when you actually see the dresses and end up loving them? what are you basing your worries off of? brides youve seen dressed by ur in laws? when was the last weddding at ur in laws’? how long ago was that maybe what you saw were dated dresses…BUT if a year from ur wedding you still find yourself not able to get over it…ask your husband for your anniversary present for a bridal dress you love and have him arrange for a photographer and do a couple’s shoot again
yaar the last wedding was just few days ago and that is what actually upset me so much because judging them based on those cloths i have no doubts i will not like the dresses they will chose for me.
