inlaws choosing wedding dress :(

[yanzala]

Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress

@khattichic

in Hyderabadi tradition..they groom’s side brings both shaadi & valima dresses (we don’t use the term “baraat” for the wedding day, i actually never really heard that term until i got active on GS!)…my khala was super scared to ask the new in-laws if we could do one day’s dress ourselves within their allotted budget…the future MIL begrudgingly said ok, but laid down the stipulation that it had to be the color red, and that we show her pictures of the design and keep her updated/in the loop…sheesh…

nope, i don’t have that choice either…