Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress 
aww thank you INSHALLAHTALA…i wish it was just one or two days things…but wedding is a once in a life time event. and bad memories hunt for life time. i don’t want to look at my wedding pictures later and still feel bad about that one issue later. i don’t want to look at other gorgeous brides later and be sad about not getting what i always wanted even since i was little.
urgh…i really hate being that way
just to clear my self i am really not going to be involved in my wedding at all. i live in USA and my wedding is going to be in pakistan. i will arrive in pakistan just few weeks before my wedding…my wedding hall, decoration, jahaiz/bari cloths, jewelry shoes are all going to be bought by my extended family or my inlaws. and none of this bother me except that one freaking issue