Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress 
In all honesty…that’s exactly what I want.
The bulk of the emphasis is put on the bride and how she looks - correct. I think I looked amazing on my wedding day even though I wore an outfit that could have passed as an engagement outfit. But do I give credit to my clothes? Um, no. It was because my skin looked good, my makeup was kept natural/neutral and I was excited. Happy. I was all smiles that day. I could have been wearing a garbage bag and still looked nice that day.
You wear the clothes…the clothes don’t wear you.