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January 28, 2012, 9:15pm
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Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress
you are not the only one going through this, same is happening to me but the only difference is mine is the walima dress which my in laws r choosing, so I m really frustrated & I feel like killing my finacee. I have had countless fights with him. Same thing happened to my best friend, her mother in law actually asked her the color but at the end she didnt choose that color. My friend’s walima was actually spoiled coz of that as she was wearing same color on both days. her 1st day was red n green n 2nd day was green. now she doesnt even show anyone her walima pics as she looks so unhappy n tensed in her pics. so she has advised me to fight till the end to get the dress my way as afterwards no one is going to give u award of being understanding & wearing the choosen dress, no one will even mention that u were thoughtful to wear their choice, it is just that imp day of ur life will be ruined. I will advise to get one urself, incase u dont like the one frm in laws, u can wear urs one. but if the in laws one is nice then there is no prblm. my in laws didnt even tell me the color though they did ask colors of the 1st day. but i am getting myself a walima dress as well. coz i dont want to moun for the rest of my life.
I don’t mean ot sound harsh, because I know how upsetting this situation can be, but the whole drama about colors being the same and all that, it sounds like the whiny brattiness of a child, not the thoughts of an adult.
