Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress 
Can you please enlighten me as to why this great tradition was established? And exactly what great benefit does it have for the bride or anyone at all except that it purely shows the mentality of the people who want to run everything their own way!
If the laws really want to be nice and gift both day dresses, they can always do that but a gift doesnt mean they can’t get the girl to pick it out herself or atleast have her preferences in check while picking the outfit for her. Honestly, i can’t believe you women..at one side you guys talk about being fair to the women blah blah but on the other side you guys refuse to admit that these traditions are bogus.
Exactly!