Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress
^ Yeah I see your point (to somegroovychick)- Ive never heard of this tradition etc and I pray it doesnt happen to me - lol
I think the husband should compromise if he knows his wife reaally wants to choose her own dress he should consider it - maybe take his wife and mum together to choose the dress…
Also what about the years of bad feelings the bride is going to have? (please dont argue about it being a materialistic thing and the bride needs to see the bigger picture - I could argue the same thing about the in-laws) why should the women be expected to get over it? Her in-laws dont own her…
Im not having a go at you hun - Im just trying to figure it out and am like reaally surprised by this…
[and theres a tiny chance Im imaging myself in the OP shoes hence my defensive stance ;)]
LOL I just posted the same thing you did.
I was trying to put myself on OP’s shoes as well but I really can’t imagine just letting my MIL do this. I would politely say no thank you.. even if it meant paying for it myself. If the guy didn’t wanna marry me after that then so be it, his loss not mine.
