Re: inlaws choosing wedding dress 
This is what I don’t get. Why do the in-laws feelings trump that of the bride? What about the bride’s bad feelings to come? What if the bride can’t forget and can’t get over it? You know these things come out years later in some convoluted argument. And a lot of people are saying its “just a dress” to the bride and she should focus on the impending marriage so why isn’t it “just a dress” to the MIL?