i love this one! one more thing: the term desi is used for all those pakistani/Indian/Bangaldeshi/Srilankan origin ppl. who r living amongst foreigners in a foreign land and despite having a passport viewed as 2nd grade citizens in the 1st world countries. INterestingly they all come back to their respective countries in search of a suitable match…ironic and hypocritical! in course of my limited interaction with them, i find them highly confused,insecure & groping for identity.