OMG to all the people who're even not being helpful, some of the replies made me really more upset (don't want to mention). well i just quoted Sara, as she's absolutely right.. my mother inlaw is a fairy, she's sooooooo much loving and caring and she cares about me a lot Alhamdulillah and that is the only reason I personally don't want her to know and worry right now in these happy moments like i'm already!! khudanakhuasta if any of you find yourself with it 2maro what will you do? I asked what should i use to cover it, you guys should only stick to that and not start talking about horrible MILs, desis are more "badnaam" than they actually are. American are even worse than any typical desi in a lot of things and we just ignore it and highlight what desis are doing.. and my fiance said that because when we (me, my fiance and my mom) went to the dr. 1st to know what's that basically.. and dr. told us that its vitiligo, i was crying throughout the driving back to home and my fiance (just because he doesn't want me to feel conscious infront of anyone) said we'll tell them later forget about it! I know my mistake i shouldn't be writing that my MIL will be upset to know right now (without details) I'm sorry about that.
2ndly, I'm on medications already... but i've to do a lot of parhez!!! its painful to have something like this right before the marriage time which i've dreamt to make my best time ever is now spending on shedding tears, ofcourse i'm worried about what if they spread khudanakhuasta!
3rdly, it is auto-immune disorder (for those who doesn't know about it and might be thinking it has anything to do with the health) it can be due to hypertension, excessive stress, depression and can lead you to these after you're diagnosed with it. the immune system starts to kill the melanocytes (pigment producing cells) and as a result you are left out with "depigmentation" drs couldn't find the actual cause why does it happen, and it is curable now via "phototherapy".. i've not started it as yet, as i'll have to visit the hospital 3 times a week and as my wedding is right after Eid, there are chances i might BREAK the course! so InshaALLAH i'll start the treatment right after my wedding :)
thankyou all for showing the concern anyway, sorry if i said anything to hurt anyone as may be you guys can understand how it is to be stressed out not only to leave the home you brought up in but about a disease which some people say has no cure for!
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