Inlaws are about to come to give "bari" &....

[hinah786]

@naqsa

^ You are right. I should have worded it better. Here’s another take–
Many desis make ridiculous and disgusting remarks when it comes to a prospective/current DIL. The focus is on looks, wealth, and status when it should be on respect, values, education, morals, religious upbringing…

P.S. Visit “Life and Relationships” threads for examples of ridiculous and disgusting behavior displayed by desis during rishtas.

And I forgot to add…what was the fiance thinking when he said ‘mama will be upset’???

Please keep in mind the hadith:P rophet of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) in choosing a wife said: “A woman is married for four reasons; her wealth,her family (lineage), her beauty and her faith. So, marry the one who is religious and you will prosper.” Saheeh al-Bukharee vol.9 no. 132.