Infidelity + Men cheating (Merged)

First Tiger Woods, Ashley Cole, then Rooney and now David Beckham (to name a few)- all under the lime light for being promiscuous… All of them have stunning looking wives!!! It really scares me that if men can have all that and yet cheat, then what hope do us ordinary women have?

Discuss…

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Hmmm I don't think it's about what you have and what you do not have. Cheating is more related to your values , morals , fear of God & character. Not all men are like that. "Wafa" is a personal trait and does not go away if your wife is not beautiful or if you are filthy rich.

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why is it that there are more reports of men cheating? Does it mean women are more loyal than men?

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I believe women are more loyal than men.

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Fidelity stems not from looks but chemistry and trust that the couple share.......

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Me too :D

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Going by that principle, if your wife is rich and gorgeous you should be scared of her snorting cocaine because so many actresses and models have been caught doing that. You just can't pick up celebrity scandals and apply them to common people like that. They are not common people and don't live ordinary/common lives and hence are not comparable with us common folk.

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There is a difference, all these are (rich) celebrities and most likely its other women who keep on hitting on these guys only to make them lower their guard

Unless you are planning to get married to Woods, Beckhams, Tom Cruises etc etc, you dont have to worry.

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I don't think most men will do this.. I think most men are very caring towards their wives and wouldn't go as far as cheating on their wives..Out of so many married couples you hear of a few. Me and hubby have a different rule instead.. we have a look but no touch rule for each other so when we go out sometimes we manage to have a little voting :) and it cheers us up and we happily return back with each other!!

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I disagree! Celebs are HUMANS just like us. ok they have more money than us, but they still breath the same air we do, they still experience the same emotions as us, otherwise they wouldnt feel the need to do things that us ordinary people do, like having kids, getting married etc....Infidelity is just as common amongst us common people, as celebs and I am sure same applies to snorting cocain etc....you dont necessarily have to be extremely rich to do it....

if they have more money. it doesnt make them less human. I am just shocked at how and why these men in question, have been unfaithful to their wives! Surely they must have had some sort of love and chemistry, otherwise they wouldnt be married! So, there is love, there is good looks, lots of money yet it doesnt equate to loyalty?!!! So I ask the question once again, what is it that men want??

Why is it deemed acceptable to have a bit of fun on the side, whilst you have a pregnant wife at home?!!

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so if you are a poor man, with no money in your pocket, you are highly unlikely to cheat on your partner?

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You take it or not but thats correct. Rich and hot are more likely to cheat because they are hit again and again and almost lured into.

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In other words women who cheat are mere victims of their bad husbands.

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your commitment to your partner shouldnt be determined by how much money you have... a coomitment is a commitment, regardless of your bank balance

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I don't base my reply on perfect world hypothesizes . My replies are based on ground realities and what happens all around me. "Should be", "would be" look good in shrek movies and not in real world.

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It just means you have started reading newspapers.

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It just tells that women are good at it.

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In some movie A woman says to a man "show me a pretties woman and I will show you a man who is tried of F----ing her"

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10 out 10 men want to cheat. Only 6 of them successful. Rest have bald hair & huge tids, got the idea ?

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As far as I can tell...cheating has less to do with looks. It has more to do with chemistry that a couple shares...and that chemistry is not just physical...its mental and emotional.

I think it was Oprah that did a piece on this topic...about why people cheat. Apparently the people they cheated with were not really all that good looking...they just gave them a feeling of appreciation, attention, care, concern, etc...along with that intimacy.