Re: Infidelity
It's a myth that men cheat more than women. The difference is: Women tend to keep their affairs secret while men get caught easily.
Why do men always cheat?
reasons:
- They are not ready to have commitments.
- They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.
- They are concerned aobut their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it.
- They like various sex partners.
- They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair.
- They need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need.
- Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.
- Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it.
- Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.
- Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.
- Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. "Schedules" and routine destroy self image.
- The woman's sex drive isn't what it was when you first got married.
- Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.
- Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationships
- The man perceives that the partner is bored with or no longer interested in sex.
- Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.
- other people are something new and different
- you have no old baggage with someone new
- maybe they want something with ''no strings''
- different people have different likes and dislikes
- their spouses might not be interested in doing the sexual things the men want to try out (e.g. oral, greek, 3-ways, etc.) or even afraid or morally against such kinks.
Re: Why do men always cheat?
We have another thread on infidelity. Post these on that thread please. Thanks!
Re: Why do men always cheat?
because they can and are allowed to, not to mention, soo much fun.
Re: Why do men always cheat?
Men don't always cheat. This incessant need to generalize is incredibly frustrating.
Re: Why do men always cheat?
^ I agree.... idiotic thread.
Re: Why do men always cheat?
Men don't always cheat. This incessant need to generalize is incredibly frustrating.
Welcome to Life1!
Re: Why do men always cheat?
^it's only that way if we let it be.
Re: Why do men always cheat?
I can't stand it either Sahar. I think people come on here either highly emotionally charged with something that happened in their life or someone close, and then it's off to the races with generalization (applies to both men and women). Or, they are just trying to get a rise out of sensible thinking people.
Re: Infidelity
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Re: Why do men always cheat?
reasons:
- They are not ready to have commitments.
- They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.
- They are concerned aobut their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it.
- They like various sex partners.
- They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair.
- They need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need.
- Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.
- Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it.
- Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.
- Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.
- Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. "Schedules" and routine destroy self image.
- The woman's sex drive isn't what it was when you first got married.
- Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.
- Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationships
- The man perceives that the partner is bored with or no longer interested in sex.
- Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.
- other people are something new and different
- you have no old baggage with someone new
- maybe they want something with ''no strings''
- different people have different likes and dislikes
- their spouses might not be interested in doing the sexual things the men want to try out (e.g. oral, greek, 3-ways, etc.) or even afraid or morally against such kinks.
John C Maxwell has a book '21 indispensable qualities of a leader' ..this post should be named '21 indispensable qualities of a man'
Re: Why do men always cheat?
All those people you mentioned, are non Muslim. In addition to this they are celebrities and it kind of goes with that lifestyle. As do drugs and alcohol.
In Islam however the punishment for adultery is very very severe both in this world (if caught and confessed), and one can only imagine in the hereafter. It is one of the major major sins, right up there with shirk.
That's why when you want to get married, find a nice humble soft spoken pious Muslim girl, from a humble Muslim family. Also don't restrict yourself to your own ethnic group or country. That's my opinion.
Re: Why do men always cheat?
All those people you mentioned, are non Muslim. In addition to this they are celebrities and it kind of goes with that lifestyle. As do drugs and alcohol.
do not agree with ur statement..
Re: Infidelity
interesting 
Re: Infidelity + Men cheating (Merged)
interesting to read all the comments from our male guppies... why so defensive?
Re: Infidelity + Men cheating (Merged)
^because they're being accused of being unfaithful based solely on their gender and tabloid info.