Sara516
September 8, 2011, 5:29am
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Re: Infertility and marriage
the other **** that I have had to hear is that I went the adoption route because there was something wrong with me or I would have gone to another woman… really…really? or is it because someone i love deeply, who almost died while giving me two little angels who had very brief time in this world means a lot to me, where having her in my life and adopted kids is more for me than not having her but have biological kids with someone else. I did not correct them, because in the end did it matter if the issue was with me or with her? and i was not going to entertain their queries and say something about her, which had the situation been reversed, i would not have liked her volunteering (and can do now because she is okay with it) but people’s thinking is just repulsive.
That is so beautifully put
Your’e right…this thinking–that spouses, esp wives–can just be discarded like a used tissue…is exactly what you said..repulsive.