Re: Infertility and marriage
i would love to adopt, but you know how difficult it is ( in Australia anyway)? I have gone around in circles for 4 years trying to get somewhere but it’s near impossible. 5-10 year wait for local adoption for a baby to become available and then maybe the baby’s parents don’t want you. My friend is currently adopting from China. She has been on their list for 5 years, and maybe 5 years more. Same kinda problem with adopting in Pak, Islamically you can’t give the child your name, and so Australia doesn’t recognise that type of adoption. A lady in the community got a child from her SIL in Pak, and has to live there instead, she can’t bring the child to Aus for a few years.. so it’s not always an easy option