Well I buy designer stuff at times and then pay sadqa on it, so I dont feel bad about it. But the point is that, if you're working hard enough for yourself and its not your father/son/husband's money then MAYBE you can spend a lil bit of it on yourself. But at the same time, make sure you're donating some money here and there. I mean I would totally feel guilty spending a $1000 on a LV handbag, unless I spend the same amount in charity.
Also, I dont think we can label ppl here as shaitan k siblings just cuz they buy designer stuff. If they can fulfill their desires within the parameters/limits of modesty and still be generous with the not-so-privileged ones. Then what's the harm!
Okay.....people who always buy designer stuff aren't shaitan kay bhai. But then who is?