Kabhi apni aik designer ki cheez khareednay kay bajaay us paisay ko kisi waqai haqdar aur ghareeb per apnay hathon say kharch kar kay daikhain aap ko kitni khushi milti hai. Itni khushi aap ko pooray maheenay mehngi cheez ko istamaal kar kay khushi naheen milay gi jitni aik lamhay main milay gi jitni kisi zaroorat mund ki madad kar kay milay gi.
Well I buy designer stuff at times and then pay sadqa on it, so I dont feel bad about it. But the point is that, if you're working hard enough for yourself and its not your father/son/husband's money then MAYBE you can spend a lil bit of it on yourself. But at the same time, make sure you're donating some money here and there. I mean I would totally feel guilty spending a $1000 on a LV handbag, unless I spend the same amount in charity.
Also, I dont think we can label ppl here as shaitan k siblings just cuz they buy designer stuff. If they can fulfill their desires within the parameters/limits of modesty and still be generous with the not-so-privileged ones. Then what's the harm!