Indian Modesty is different from Pakistani modesty

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Re: Indian Modesty is different from Pakistani modesty

@TS

First of all, you are making me look bad, sister.
Somebody said that Indian girls were throwing themselves at him left and right somewhere. I think he was joking
I responded with a question with something like “Are you saying, Indian girls are loose ?”. Also jokingly.
Not thinking at that time that this could be considered offensive as their are Indian women on this forum.
I apologize again for the bad joke.

Secondly, I don’t see any difference between the Pak and Indian TV actresses’ dressing in the pictures you posted, as far as modesty is concerned.

My comment was focused on the HM/IH promotion picture that I found very offensive.
To which Queer thought that I was over-reacting.
The jist of my response to him was that he may not find that picture offensive as an Indian because Bollywood has probably desensitized Indians to that extreme level of exposure and they don’t bat an eye when they see such images.
Frankly I feel bombarded by such images from Bollywood.
And as a Pakistani, I will be offended every time I see such images - ‘aesthetic’ or not.
The issue got mixed up with general society because of the way I posed my response when I said that “Indian and Pakistani values are obviously different when it comes to modesty”.

Sheesh …

Sorry i know you didn’t mean that “loose” comment. It was the other person who was generalising first. Lekin Muqa bhai mentioned that thread so i had to say something. All comments im posting are just my view points they don’t mean to make you look wrong or make you feel bad. Agar aise ho to humein maaf kar dijiye. Anyway woh joke ho gaya so we shouldn’t talk about it.

WIth pictures i just wanted to show that Bollywood is not all things Indian. Just because immodest dressing happens in bollywood doesn’t mean it happens everywhere or in real life.
This thread is just becoming about bollywood modesty vs pakistani drama or lollywood modesty.If we are comparing drama serials then compare indian vs pakistani drama serials in terms of clothes. If we’re comparing film industry then compare bollywood vs lollywood vs any other wood.
I understand your views on HM thread and that is why i posted those modest pics of HM and joked that bollywood corrupted her. Then after reading Lily’s comments yesterday and her past threads mujhe laga why blame a whole industry for what pakistani actors do. If you hate an industry and indians things fine but then don’t go on the bollywood forum and say it is trash which is what she did. Or don’t say that on every single bollywood related thread on showbiz pakistan. Thoda boring ho jaata hai same lines baar baar padh ke. Kehna hai to creatively kaho. They have choice to act not act in film. No one should feel they have to sign a film if it goes against their values. Queer also doesn’t represent the average Indian.

I know bollywood seems very big because you see lot of images but i think its important to say though it’s a big industry it’s only one film industry in India. It doesn’t cover Indian art films and other films.