Indian husband , pakistani wife .... potential issues ..

[Shamus]

@Deeba1234

You can call me a ‘coconut’ or whatever I really couldn’t care less, all that matters to me is what my parents think and they’ve given me their blessing. I’ll admit my brother has a problem with me marrying a white lad but whenever he makes some nasty comment my Dad just tells him to shut up. And no, my community hasn’t shunned me either, like I said about half the weddings we go to now are mixed marriages anyway (more often the girls marrying non-desis tho) and in my own family it’s become common as well (my cousin was the first to ‘marry out’ to an English man and that was 20 or so yrs ago when it really was a scandal), we’re mixed with Bengalis, Swedish, quite a few other nationalities.. My Kashmiri mate is female and the lad is half-Somali, half-white, his Mum was Christian, reverted yrs ago and now wears proper hijab (ie not see thru dupatta like a lot of Pak Mums wear) and is much more practising than most desis I know. Am quite surprised that ppl like u still take the race thing so seriously when it’s obvious that in 20yrs or so bigger cities are prob just going to end up like big melting pots anyway..

Oh, and regarding ur comment about GS members thinking badly of me for being engaged to a white bloke but not wanting to type it u need to check out more threads and members and see just how many of them have done the same, I’m not going to embarrass them here by naming them but I can think of about half a dozen names who post regularly (including a mod) just off the top of my head.. I think u’ll find that views like urs are actually in the minority (there is another poster that thinks like u tho, I think his name was ‘marwati’ or something in the culture thread, u might wana check that out)..

Your family is nothing like typical Pakistani family in Birmingham and if i was relaxing with your brother with a family history like yours im sure someone would tell me to stay away, no offence you lot are lost.

Yeah i can tell your Punjabi/Sindhi especially if your parents accepted a white lad LOOL But hey good going you can safely say your a ‘modern’ pakistani now and all us pakistani who don’t do the inter-racial crap are ‘narrow minded’ and ‘backwards’.

As i said before Pakistani in U.k are represented by Bradford n Birmingham and due to MPz + Pashtun there i can safely say there will be no melting pot in 20 years as both have an extremely strong culture but you can keep dreaming we all turn out lost, like you. Word of advice keep your half-cast kids in London because im not joking when i say in B’ham they would get totally abused..

Your really ethnically ignorant if you think your friends kashmiri, when she wears Dupatta which is hindu culture which koshurs have nothing in common with. Seriously as a kashmiri i can’t tell you a girl bringing white or black and a non-Pakistani will lead to being disowned by the family aswell as bringing shame on our family izzat.

Are all those GS member located in U.K? I genuinally doubt it and marrying into white brits is a rarity here in B’ham and god knows the amount of crap the couples will have to face From Mother/Fathers/Aunties/kids.

I’ve seen Marwati post and i thoroughly enjoy reading them, hes a proud Pashtun who values his culture and its people like him that make me proud to be Pakistani.