Wow, the most ignorant post I've read on here in a long-time. Oh and yes, I am one of those 'coconuts' who is marrying out of her race (there are plenty of others as well on here lol)
Only backward uneducated families tend to have that mentality of 'only marry within your own' nowadays. I'm from London and **about 50% of the weddings we go to are mixed marriages. **Only an insecure person with a chip on his shoulder would come out with this rubbish. I guess really I should feel pity..
Yeah and your probably Punjabi/Sindhi considering your from London where most Pakistani are passive and generally completely lost in my opinion. Pakstanis in UK are represented mainly by Birmingham and Bradford which mainly consist of MPz.
Yeah thats why we come from a famly that have all been in Birmingham Grammar schools and gone to a redbrick uni to study med or dent. My family may marry outside but it only in Mirpuri or Pashtun that they are truely accepted in our family because kids don't become lost and value their religion and culture alot more.
Just because we have been born in the U.K doesn't mean we lose our culture and heritage but then again according to 'some people' that make us insecure or narrow minded as we should progress and be modern, in searching for this 'modernity' we should have BFs/GFs, mix with different genders loosely and wear loose tops/tight bottoms.
Kashmiri and Somalian LOOOL . He probably isn't koshur in the first place and second of all if hes Mirpuri then god help him/her as that marriage would be of the cards as soon as the Father/brother/Mothers finds out as they have a really strong culture too. Here in B'ham a Somalian tried chatting up a Mirpuri girl as soon as the Brothers found out they went 'Alum Rock' on the Somalian and he was pretty much F'd up, so much for your B/S. I hate speaking for the Mirpuri or Pashtun people but from my experience their culture is way too strong and may Allah bless them because of Pakistani like them i feel proud to call myself Pakistani. Even at Uni(B'ham) i've had a couple of white friends telling me they admired how strong the Pakistani culture is and how they stick together and help each other out.
Your marrying a white lad LOL!! Yeah you surely are a coconut im sure most Pakistani here (GS) and in the U.K along with the millions of brothers/aunties would say the same although they wouldn't type it here or say it to your face because they can't be asked to hurt someones feeling by saying the truth. I don't come on the forums to be a troll or just to annoy people i just say what i really feel and i know for a fact in B'ham marrying outside Pakistani community is completely shunned upon if you belong to Kashmiri, Mirpuri n Pashtun.