Increasing Divorce Rate

skhan · August 8, 2005, 5:17am

Re: Increasing Divorce Rate

CM:

As my last post on GS for a long time with the Sept summit coming up i want to lay out some rough pebbles to swallow. The first issue with marriage these days is that people look at material things. Not just the parents. But you lot and the people in your age group. Does he have an education i can agree with? Does he have a job i like? Does he have a high paying income and yet can spend hours with me?

Then there is the whole desan issue. I am pretty disappointed with what i have seen in the US and in Europe. I mean just because you have an education and don’t speak broken english does not mean you are better or special than anyone else. That means you are average. You have reached a level where everybody should be. If you take it from that point of view you lot should not have a problem finding a guy.

I frankly agree with medic. I would only suggets a girl now from back home, or someone abroad who hasn’t lost her sense of identity or faith. Luckily i have found someone like that.

On top of that is the issue of compromise. People in a marriage see it as a negotiation for power. Not one of commitment. Who will control what and get what they want. Desans are spoiled. They don’t have to work. They don’t have to do anything really except do the house work. They have their family specifically brothers do everything for them. Added to that the airs of importance because they are educated you have one uncompromising selfish woman. Most guppans fit that bill. I could name names, but hey whats the use in statrting a fight when i won’t be around to respond

The first thing desans should learn is how to be decent wives. They have lived with their families and been spoiled. It is time they learnt how their mothers handled things. Every desan still wants to be the one catered too. They never want to take the responsibility that their mother has. Look at what your mothers do. They aren’t just the ones that cook or clean. They are the ones that in 99% of the cases make sure that the psychological and emotional state of the household is kept intact. A woman makes or breaks her house. Not the man.

In summary girls, learn how to cook! That’s all that is expected of you.