Increasing Divorce Rate

Re: Increasing Divorce Rate

High divorce rates shouldn't make us question really what couples are doing wrong, but how these rishtaas come to be in the first place, actually.

When you keep making bad business deals, isn't the first thing you question yourself on is "what am I doing to keep meeting these wrong people?" Cut the problem at the root. Our whole rishtaa-seeking process - arranged and non-arranged - is all crap. Even for most "love marriages", family comes into the picture somewhere along the line, and parents are allowing for even these love marriages to take place.

So why arent our wise sages (buzurkhs) picking up on the scent of a bad match early enough?