While waiting for my friend outside the fitting room. A couple walked toward me. They said hi, and started talking to me. After a few seconds or so the female went inside to try something on. Now the husband/boyfriend whatever he was takes out a little piece of paper and writes something on it. Comes a foot away and whispers “You’re cute” and hands over the paper and walks away. I didn’t even bother to see what he had wrote, it had to be his phone number.
Now, I look up and see the female coming out of the fitting room and looking for the guy. Not sure on what to do , I went up to her and gave her the paper and told her what he had said. She stared at me for a whole long one minute. Without saying a word, she goes up to the guy, hits him on his face and walks out of the store. Luckily, he ran after her. Nahi tu ajj mere khair nahi thee.
I just got home, and I m feeling guilty for doing that to him. I don’t know how I feel, it just doesn’t feel right. I should not have told on him but then how else would he learn a lesson. Was this the right and the only thing to do?
if this were one year ago, i would have done the same. i've learned the hard way, that its best not to tattle tale unless its a matter of life/death. getting involved in other people's business is not worth it.
You know just ignore him, trash the lil piece of paper like all the others, tell him I’m married (well in this case he didn’t give me a chance to say anything)
^ and then he would be doing it to any other person. He should have gotten the lesson from somewhere. Don't you feel proud of being the first & best teacher :p?
You did the right thing. What do you mean poor guy, he was the one being sneaky and doing something wrong.
Look at it this way, the only reason he did that to you is he thought you were someone who would call him. So, what you just did was show him you weren't like that, simple. He messed up his relationship, not you. He was wrong.
This was a very reckless act. You don’t know the guy and how he’d react. He could have come back looking for you too. On top of that you are meddling in other peoples’ lives. Bottom line is that you reacted based on just one act. However, in the process you set into motion a chain of events that might be very painful for both of them.
If you didn’t like what he did, should’ve thrown away the number; he is a cheater and not worth your time and that’d have been fair.
She wasn't playing judge and jury, she was involved because she was put there by his actions. She did what she thought was best - right or wrong. I personally applaud her, but she would have been just as correct to throw the number away and forget everything.
LI - Not sure whether your response was based on apathy or fear (though fromwhat I have read from you, I would say apathy, not fear:) ), but doing what you would have done would have been correct, too. Basically in these situations you just have to do what you believe is right.
you did the right thing. If he has that little regard for his girl while she is literally right there, then you can imagine what he does when she isnt around. If it wasnt you it would have been someone else, and she would have found out sooner or later. Besides you dont know em, so its all gravy train.
You have to give the guy a little doubt of the benefit. You heard what you wanted to hear, he might have said, “You are Bhoot” and might have handed you out the phone number of a Beauty Saloon.
Goddamnit these girls of today. It’s sickening. Blame everything on poor guys.
its probably all right considering ther way it turned out, but as a rule, u dont go around messing with strangers…the woman cud have got defiant and said some thing in return to u, made up any story, and since ur holding the paper, it wud have looked umm really interesting…sb gives u a pper, dont take it or throw it away… if u flash it around and make a mountain ofut of it, then rem there is no evdidence u haven’t written it…she cud have done/said a lot of thing in her embarrassment…
I’d have told him that I am flattered but I am straight.
Now seriously speaking, this guy could have turned violent. Girl’s response could’ve been bad too (ghulail makes a god point). You, Me, Mahnoor, and the rest of us just don’t know how a man/woman will respond. Mahnoor being mahnoor, her physical safety ought to be paramount to her.
I won’t deny it, a healthy dose of fear is good. When there is a woman/women involved, things could turn into nasty physical violence.
