Inappropriate closeness with certain inlaws

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Re: Inappropriate closeness with certain inlaws

@Demesne

And let me add that I feel that no woman should confide her woes to a man other than her husband/brother/father. Because when confiding woes and crying, she already is in a weak emotional state and that can lead to her forming attachment to whoever her “saviour” is. She should turn to her own husband/brother/father for a shoulder to cry on.

My sentiments exactly, I say this all the time and can’t agree more. And I know the OP isn’t talking about doctors and psychologists etc. He’s talking about talking about marital woes and discussing them with your BIL or basically anyone you are “compatible” with. I mean, you are already feeling unattached to your partner, why go to someone else who could potentially fill in the mold, not to that all women will but it can happen when you’re emotionally vulnerable.