And let me add that I feel that no woman should confide her woes to a man other than her husband/brother/father. Because when confiding woes and crying, she already is in a weak emotional state and that can lead to her forming attachment to whoever her "saviour" is. She should turn to her own husband/brother/father for a shoulder to cry on.
So one should not confide in a male doctor, psychologist or counselor at the risk of forming an attachment? A bit extreme is it not.
Demi is right, my brother tells me exactly how to deal with my period pain. I trust his professional opinion as my brother to help better my physical condition.
^ Milly I have explained myself that I am not speaking of professionals. If you are bent on distorting what I am saying, despite the fact that as soon as nazi made that comment, I further clarified myself, then it's just obvious that you're answering this thread for no any constructive reason
^ Milly I have explained myself that I am not speaking of professionals. If you are bent on distorting what I am saying, despite the fact that as soon as nazi made that comment, I further clarified myself, then it's just obvious that you're answering this thread for no any constructive reason
Oh dear, calm down pet. This is the interwebs. I can answer any thread in any which way choose to. Once again we have that 'I opened the thread, it belongs to me' mentality, unless you pissed all around it luv, nowt on the interweb belongs to you.
Demense, people don't have to agree with your rules, infact, the purpose of this forum is to share our thoughts, right?
Personally I don't see what's wrong with sharing some personal issues with the opposite gender as long as you're not being unfaithful to your spouse. Confiding can take her to forming attachment to that person but then anything can lead her to that.
True Hareem. I just didnt want to trivialise the question or anything to be taken in a direction I did not mean for it to go/be held answerable for something I didnt mean to say, hence I clarified immediately.
In the end, this thread as all others is a public thread. Anyone may come and say what they please.
True Hareem. I just didnt want to trivialise the question or anything to be taken in a direction I did not mean for it to go/be held answerable for something I didnt mean to say, hence I clarified immediately.
In the end, this thread as all others is a public thread. Anyone may come and say what they please.
You've not been here long pet, but this happens on the interweb, especially on GS. Wait till you get points for detrailing a thread because you are not 'popular' :( x eleventy billion.
You are very welcome for the lesson. :) x eleventy billion.
You've not been here long pet, but this happens on the interweb, especially on GS. Wait till you get points for detrailing a thread because you are not 'popular' :( x eleventy billion.
You are very welcome for the lesson. :) x eleventy billion.
lol...:) no disrespect meant from my side Milly, and no offense taken :)
And let me add that I feel that no woman should confide her woes to a man other than her husband/brother/father. Because when confiding woes and crying, she already is in a weak emotional state and that can lead to her forming attachment to whoever her "saviour" is. She should turn to her own husband/brother/father for a shoulder to cry on.
My sentiments exactly, I say this all the time and can't agree more. And I know the OP isn't talking about doctors and psychologists etc. He's talking about talking about marital woes and discussing them with your BIL or basically anyone you are "compatible" with. I mean, you are already feeling unattached to your partner, why go to someone else who could potentially fill in the mold, not to that all women will but it can happen when you're emotionally vulnerable.
If these men and women had the maturity, courage and integrity to keep their private marital affairs to themselves, like we have been instructed to by God, then we wouldn't have to deal with such situations. Unfortunately, some find it hard to survive without the constant need to fall back to their ammi/abbu/BFF/insert your crutch here. Grow up, learn to handle your own problems and take responsibility for your actions. Otherwise, don't get married at all. It's a big, bad world out there, it's safer to stay at home.
My husband's neice fed him on a public street in front of other people and her own husband. She is almost the same age as me, her husband looked away and I was lost at words. I think thats inappropriate closseness. she wanted him to eat out of the same plate too, forget the inlaws who are not even related to you (by the way thats disgusting too)
Why didnt you say anything? I would make her feel like absolute sh*t, also, my fiance is a very subtle, slightly territorial kind of a guy, he'd never accept the ice cream or that plate sharing and then we'd laugh at her stupidity afterwards.
Why didnt you say anything? I would make her feel like absolute sh*t, also, my fiance is a very subtle, slightly territorial kind of a guy, he'd never accept the ice cream or that plate sharing and then we'd laugh at her stupidity afterwards.
I dont know M. there are certain cousins of his who are younger who I would allow this with. Like one who I particularly adore as well since she is very loving and respectful towards me and is around 12 + years younger than him. Granted shes not married now, if she were perhaps and most likely Id have a completely different take on this. That aside, there is another cousin of his her age and if she were to do this, I'd have daggers out
