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What type of girls does badabing play with and which ones do you breed with and make our bhabhis?
I’m asking qualities.
I haven’t read your other threads, have you been in love before since you said you have a colorful past?
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Best fuel efficiency at 45 to 55 mph
No jack rabbit starts please
If light just turned red coast to it. Take foot off gas.
Know ur signals timings
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Nope, never been in love. I went through a period in my life where at my peak I was seeing 7-10 girls a week. I had this rule - when a girl started to cuddle after doing the deed, it was time to move on. Kind of became hollow in the end.
The ones you play with almost certainly have issues - self esteem, childhood issues etc, you just need to know how to manipulate them.
All these girls were gorgeous, yet they had self esteem issues - use to be fat, were bullied in school, daddy issues and so on. Like I said, tell them what they want to hear. It didn’t matter how many times I told them they were cute, it wasn’t enough - so they gave me their sexuality for the emotional support and attention I was providing them.
Someone you marry is different, a strong woman with very little baggage and thinks baby’s are delivered by storks.
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^ Sometimes I think you are a troll.
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Nope, never been in love. I went through a period in my life where at my peak I was seeing 7-10 girls a week. I had this rule - when a girl started to cuddle after doing the deed, it was time to move on. Kind of became hollow in the end.
The ones you play with almost certainly have issues - self esteem, childhood issues etc, you just need to know how to manipulate them.
All these girls were gorgeous, yet they had self esteem issues - use to be fat, were bullied in school, daddy issues and so on. Like I said, tell them what they want to hear. It didn't matter how many times I told them they were cute, it wasn't enough - so they gave me their sexuality for the emotional support and attention I was providing them.
Someone you marry is different, a strong woman with very little baggage and thinks baby's are delivered by storks.
So you marry girls that are 6 yrs old or that think like a 6 yr old. I know you mean innocent ones that were raised in a protective bubble and lived in Disney Land their whole life til they were ready to marry....you or most desi men that are like you.
There are quite a lot of desi men that think like this. Not all, i've come across ones that are refreshingly different that don't do these things to girls that have self esteem issues.
I wish all little girls that are in their teen years, that do go through that awkward stage could see your post. You being completely honest with us? It's good to see the thought process though.
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So you marry girls that are 6 yrs old or that think like a 6 yr old. I know you mean innocent ones that were raised in a protective bubble and lived in Disney Land their whole life til they were ready to marry....you or most desi men that are like you.
There are quite a lot of desi men that think like this. Not all, i've come across ones that are refreshing that don't do these things to girls that have self esteem issues.
You being completely honest with us? It's good to see the thought process.
Lol, you marry someone with good ethic and morals. Someone with good boundaries. Someone who doesn't linger on past issue or insecurities. Someone stable and secure.
As far as being honest. Look, there are plenty of good guys out there that work hard, are professionals, etc etc. who want the family life and to put their wives on a pedestal. I just don't happen to be one of them.
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Lol, you marry someone with good ethic and morals. Someone with good boundaries. Someone who doesn't linger on past issue or insecurities. Someone stable and secure.
I love what you've written there and of course we all want life partners that are like this and we want to be people that are like this.
But I feel for the ones(men and women) that might have had a bad past that might not have completely recovered that came across people that thought like the way you described in your earlier post.
I'm sorry i'm using this analogy but it's like how a vulture sees it's prey. What if your son or daughter had self esteem issues and came across a person that thought like that.
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I love what you've written there and of course we all want life partners that are like this and we want to be people that are like this.
But I feel for the ones(men and women) that might have had a bad past that might not have completely recovered that came across people that thought like the way you described in your earlier post.
I'm sorry i'm using this analogy but it's like how a vulture sees it's prey. What if your son or daughter had self esteem issues and came across a person that thought like that.
I suppose therapy would be in order if my kids had issues - I'd tell them to read Freud to be honest, kind of easy to self diagnose and reconcile ones issues.
My biggest fear is ending up with someone who has issues. I'm not the kind of person who will sit with you, hold your hand and say "there there". I'm more likely to say f it, phone up my boys, and go find some women. So I pray to god I get someone well rounded - it's one of the reasons why I no longer behave promiscuously, as well as a new found respect for religion. I don't want anyone with family issues either - ain't got time for my own family let alone someone else's.
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Reading badabing's posts makes me wanna thank the Lord I don't have a daughter. (Never thought I'd be thankful for this....never).
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^ Sometimes I think you are a troll.
You're not the first person to postulate that on this forum. I've been accused of being someone who's been banned in the past to someone using multiple profiles. Meh, I am what I am.
My views are out there - especially for a Paki. However to me, my views are normal. You should see some off my friends - I'm a saint in comparison.
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You are messed up and have too many issues of your own, a decent, well rounded girl wouldn't want a bar of you.
But really, you are just a cliche.
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I suppose therapy would be in order if my kids had issues - I'd tell them to read Freud to be honest, kind of easy to self diagnose and reconcile ones issues.
Do you feel repentance for taking advantage of and manipulating those girls that did have daddy issues, self esteem issues, insecurity problems? My point in mentioning your future kids is that eventually someone you love with all your heart and soul will be a replica of one of those girls that you and your friends manipulated.
You're saying you want a relationship that balances you out. I get that.
@badabing : somewhere out there, there is a girl that will marry you cuz she will want to fix you. You will be her pet project. It will be very filmi. Where you will be hurtful and she will be understanding and patient...
How frustrating that will be for you. Uff.
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Nope, never been in love. I went through a period in my life where at my peak I was seeing 7-10 girls a week. I had this rule - when a girl started to cuddle after doing the deed, it was time to move on. Kind of became hollow in the end.
The ones you play with almost certainly have issues - self esteem, childhood issues etc, you just need to know how to manipulate them.
All these girls were gorgeous, yet they had self esteem issues - use to be fat, were bullied in school, daddy issues and so on. Like I said, tell them what they want to hear. It didn't matter how many times I told them they were cute, it wasn't enough - so they gave me their sexuality for the emotional support and attention I was providing them.
Someone you marry is different, a strong woman with very little baggage and thinks baby's are delivered by storks.
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Reading badabing's posts makes me wanna thank the Lord I don't have a daughter. (Never thought I'd be thankful for this....never).
Read return of kings blog you will be even more grateful
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Badabing doesn't know what marriage is. Anyone who has ever gotten married has some issues. Even well rounded people have some minor issues. Not to mention the issues that can develop after marriage. And the good girls want good guys. Who haven't messed about and don't have a past.
It says in the Qur'an 24:26
"Women impure are for men impure, and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say: for them there is forgiveness, and a provision honourable."
May Allah give us pure spouses and make us pure spouses for them. Ameen.
Also if you have a past and have sinned there is no need to talk about your sins and make them public to the rest of us. Comes across as arrogant.
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Read return of kings blog you will be even more grateful
In blogs on gupshup? I can't find it.
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i like to be driven around like a lady if i am with my husband.
otherwise i prefer driving if i am with brother or dad.
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In blogs on gupshup? I can't find it.
Lol not here i mean on google. Badabing once said he learnt from it alot so i chose to read it and was horrified with its contents about women etc. :(
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Do you feel repentance for taking advantage of and manipulating those girls that did have daddy issues, self esteem issues, insecurity problems? My point in mentioning your future kids is that eventually someone you love with all your heart and soul will be a replica of one of those girls that you and your friends manipulated.
You're saying you want a relationship that balances you out. I get that.
For being able to play them? Not really, no. It was an exchange - their sexuality for my time, adoration, affection and validation. I feel sorry for a couple of them who thought we would end up together long term, they were actually nice women, but not Muslim enough for me: contradiction, I know. At the time I was messed up as they were due to family issues - I learnt to fix myself and get off that bandwagon: repenting to the one that matters. The rest, as they say, is history.
Who mentioned return of kings - haven't read that in a while, will have a little read tonight. I encourage all men to read return of kings, amazing website for men - especially those that live in the West.