Suhaina,
I have noticed for quite some time now that you and your husband are having communication problems. Even before, in an earlier thread, you had complained that your husband doesn't not talk or respond to you....as if he goes mute.
Also, I have a suggestion for you. When you create a thread...please tell us what question you want answered by everyone. Ab tum jaa kar apna post parho. Kuch samajh main nahin aata k tum kya chahti ho. Kyoon k tum ne koi question hi nahi likha. You did not mention what you need help with. And it's frustrating because banday ko pata nahin hota k tum sirf shikayat kar rahi ho ya kuch advice bhi chahti ho. Job bhi advice tumhay chahiye....ussay question k form main poocho. This will make your problems seem a bit more understandable by readers.
Now about your husband: You need to talk to him about this problem directly. Start the discussion off by mentioning *POSITIVE **things about him (such as things you like about him) and the discuss what is bothering you. Tell him that *"I find it to be inconsiderate when you don't respond to me at all. I'm not a mind reader. And this behavior makes it more stressful for me because I feel like I'm left hanging.....when you dont' respond. IN our marriage, if I have done something wrong, I will apologize because I believe it's the right thing to do. And apologizing doesn't make one weaker or smaller. It takes a lot of courage to admit that one is wrong and to apologize. If you dont' want to apologize, that's your decision, I can't force you. But at least communicate your thoughts to me when we're having a discussion, nobody likes to be deliberately ignored. This isn't a healthy pattern for our relationship. And I want our marriage to work." **
yaar zarbardast advice yaar!