Since you are the one who compromised on your principles then you are the one who has to make all the sacrifices. You got yourself into this mess , You know what kind of mess you are in , you know your husband , you know his family , you know your options , you know what will it take to get you out of this mess , more sacrifices and patience for a few more years.
She did and the answer was yes even though he chose his family over her, that was not a deal breaker for her though at that time.