He must have been 17 going on to 18 when he first fell for her. They were at college together, and the feeling was mutual. Although they never dated, due to religious reasons, they wished to marry each other in future years.
However, they were only loosly in touch with one another as the years went by, and his feelings for her subsided with time. The moment for marriage came, and her family approached him with a proposal, but he declined because his parents would have rejected it. She’s now married, but lives unhappily. His feelings for her have returned … but she’s married. She can’t feel any affection for the man she’s with. She’s still in love with him, the boy she met once upon a time.
This is someone i know. What do you think he should he do?
He isn't worth her time..
he changed his mind?!! Are you serious?
If he falls in and out of love this easily then she needs to spend her energy working on her marriage..
Might sound difficult now but its for the best in the long run
carry on a secret affair.. within months his 'feelings' for her would again disappear out the window... and there'd be no need to break an existing marriage.. if they still don't.. they can by all means elope.
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The moment for marriage came, and her family approached him with a proposal, but he declined because his parents would have rejected it.
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You mean, he didn't even bother trying, by talking to his parents about it? If that's the case, then that's horrible.
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*Originally posted by ~MuNiYa~: *
He isn't worth her time..
he changed his mind?!! Are you serious?
If he falls in and out of love this easily then she needs to spend her energy working on her marriage..
Might sound difficult now but its for the best in the long run
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I totally agree! He changed his mind easily before and didn't even try for her. Now that she's married, he wants to try. Whatever! She needs to focus on her marriage and he needs to let her go.
This idiot woman deserves ass-holes like this guy. She is stupid enough to even think of this jerk who went sissy when it came to convincing his parents for his love. What a geedar kee aulaad!
They both should consider suicide, but before that, they should have a little fun like going out together for some Ben and Jerry's ice cream. Oh, it is ever so satisfying.
And also, she is an idiot. If she is not happy with her hubby, why the hell did she agree to marry him? She made her bed, now she should sleep in it. Every time things go wrong, people blame everyone else but themselves. Such people should be shot in the head on point blank range. Despicable people. Oh these people make me so mad.
In terms of the boy. He is a loser. He should consider killing himself
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This idiot woman deserves ass-holes like this guy. She is stupid enough to even think of this jerk who went sissy when it came to convincing his parents for his love. What a geedar kee aulaad!
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Yup...the girl is an idiot! She will one day realise her mistake and let him go.
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He is one of those people who find things charming just because they do not possess them. When given a chance they always backout.
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It's sad indeed, that he didn't even make the effort to try to talk to his parents. They might even have accepted, who knows.
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where is respected mod when such crap is posted by such stupid ppl
abt the topic … i think shes better off without that jackass. now she shud try to concentrate on her new life. this guy wasn’t serious about her and now since she’s married, i doubt if he’ll even consider her as his wife. she shudn’t ruin her life for him anymore. you learn from the past and mistakes and this is the time for her to correct herself.
The girl was forced into the marriage. As for the boy, then he had lost most of what he felt for the girl, that is, until he saw her again which was after her marriage.
Also, i think his feelings for her grew when he found out that she was going through a rough marriage. At the same time her feelings for him (the boy) become more apparent, to one or two of her friends.
