Ok I agree not every case is the same. I would love to have my MIL live with me when I am expecting. I don’t care really. She is like my mother who will look after me.
But I’ve seen these girls who don’t even live with their in laws and say all the mean things. I don’t believe in judging people unless you live with them. I see girls who are always so negative. Everyone makes mistakes, so what if their in laws did to as some point. Ask your bhabis if your mother is perfect. I am sure she’ll say at least few things that could be changed. So why is the guy’s parents treated so differently.
I fight with my MIL just like i fight with my mom and I hug my MIL just like i hug my own mom. Its not easy, it takes time and a lot of effort. But last thing I’ll do is say bad things about my MIL. I disagree with them somtimes and I let them know.
My friend’s MIL/FIL are coming to visit their son for the first time and that too for only four days. She’s been living with her husband ever since she got married. Don’t the parents deserve to see the son and to live in his house for few days too???
All the negativity won’t do anyone good.
I agree with you..they are just coming for 4 days so why is she creating an issue.. what if her parents were coming? i am sure she would be really happy then..
she is pregnant so guess she is stressed and worried how will she handle everything.
just try to help her