Re: in laws n living with them
^lol
Most MIL try to be as good but they have their OWN FEARS.
You see, in old days, MIL was NOT taught to be an independent person financially. She was ALWAYS dependent. She was ALWAYS thought that when her son grows up he will be the "care taker".
So her fears are that the DIL will "take" her pillar of "support" because the girls now a days are very much "self indulgent" type.
So if a DIL shows that she is not there to take away the MIL's security, then the MIL can also loosen up and be a "safe" MIL.