In - Laws in the wedding planning

[Reha]

Re: In - Laws in the wedding planning

@somegroovychick

E) Reconsider marrying into this family. They don’t sound like nice people. You’re not even married and they’re all about making demands and asking for things. Wtf. What happens when you are married? They treat you like the new maid in the house? If there’s no respect to begin with between families, consider that a warning sign. It’s a big problem. You’re not being bought for their son. They don’t get to bargain over “your price”.

@Sahar02

Also, I personally feel that if you can’t tell your parents something, then you know deep down that it’s wrong.

QFT

OP…you may not want to hear this and I hate to be the one saying this.

If a family asks for things even BEFORE the rishta has turned into marriage…they WILL ask later on as well. In fact, it will turn into a demand in order to keep you. It doesn’t stop or end because they feel you are beneath them since you are larki walay.

This family does not respect you or your parents. In my experience…in-laws MUST respect the girl or guy’s parents in order to treat her or him well. When they don’t respect them, things go from bad to worse. Right now, its gifts. Later on you might be asked for other things.

This len dein is wrong to begin with…demanding things is besharmi.

If you want to marry him, marry him. But don’t give in to unreasonable demands and do not allow ANYONE to disrespect your parents.