in-laws destroying BIL's marriage

[amber19]

Re: in-laws destroying BIL’s marriage

@PyariCgudia

Um correction: Happens in backwards Hindu culture where we get these lovely habits. Happy?

Amber, I think it’s great you keep in touch with the girl. I’d stay in touch with her and give her encouragement to keep the marriage going. If this was happening to me, I’d probably call it quits and file for a divorce and take the MIL to the lawyers and judge for an emotional abuse lawsuit and try to get some $$ from her in the process to put her in her place.

That’s what these MIL’s need. A proper punishment for this sort of behavior.

Thanks Honestly she’s one of my best friends ever since she and my BIL got married. We have a great bond and that’s why her sadness really makes me feel so bad.
She doesn’t want to end the marriage and nor does my BIL, I know that he’s trying from his perspective to save enough for them to move out, and she’s trying by going about doing the household duties, etc without making a peep. But it’s just that it’s not a way for someone to live their life forever.. which is why it makes me angry at my in-laws. My own MIL never lived with her MIL either and to this day has nothing good to say about her, so I just don’t understand why she would repeat the same injustices onto someone else.