In laws complaints

[terebina786]

Re: In laws complaints

@mizsani

It hurts so much when you do your best but people are still complaining or are ungrateful. One time, My inlaws sat me down with my hubby and started complaining. We were living together and I was in school. They said that I should do the same amount of chores as my SIL who was a housewife. Hence, I told them that I was doing the best that I could and if they still have complaints than they can tell hubby to fulfill their expectations as he knows them best. I told them that I am not willing to compromise my education for any reason. I really think being straight up is the best because this way there are no crazy expectations. I would just tell them that I did the best I could and next time you can tell me what you would like and I will try to accommodate your requests.

Now this would piss me off. If we’re old enough to get married in our parents eyes, do NOT sit us down and treat us like children. Plain and simple. Desi parents/in-laws have unreal expectations sometimes… And another big reason I’m not cool with the joint family system.