Re: In laws complaints
No, it’s not a waste. You would be strengthening your marriage if you show hospitality and kindness to your husband’s parents. You get your ajar from Allah. You’d be setting a good example for your child as to how to behave with family and especially elders that may be set in their ways and that are being difficult. So, no, it’s not a waste. If your goal is only to please in-laws and win their praise and acceptance…then you will end up feeling exhausted and hurt. So look at the other benefits.