Re: In-laws... and strategies to deal with them.
I dont understand ho wold is this BIL? Have you ever confronted him or asked him in a "nice to him" manner to please take care of you rmesses. Does your husband tell you that you HAVE to take care of him, seriously you need to focus on yourself, screw the BIL.
And the other posted who had an issue similar, was our BIL disabled that he couldnt get his own food? I would totally ignore the fool and focus on myself n children. Obviously you have to cook for the family, but let him serve himself and heat up his own food. He wants snacks?? Guide him to a store nearby where he can purchase them fresh.