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I am also expecting our first child alhamdulillah, but obv, even with the fact that my husband and I can afford to pay our own mortgage,
Bhenjee my advice to u is try to stay happy, hav a very good relationship with ur husband,** thank Allah each day that your MIL donot live with you, imagine if she does wht happen, your devar must be working or studying , so u must be getting ur own time but wht if ur MIL was living with u>?**
Think abt ur baby, n how ur life wud be change, shop for ur baby, leave ur MIL on her own, donot giv much details but continue talking politely, pray and ask ALLAH to help u.
Asalam o Alaikum