nnabid
June 28, 2013, 6:59pm
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Re: In-law problems
Cheap thrills? Again, I doubt the husband has ill intentions and here’s why:
He was sleeping when the stepsister plops herself next to him. He may not even have known. When his wife told him to move to the other bedroom so that the two ladies can be left alone…he obliged, he didn’t resist. That doesn’t sound like he’s getting a cheap thrill.
He goes to the other room and let’s say he’s the kind to fall asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow and a deep sleep at that…maybe he wasn’t fully aware that the stepsister went to his bedroom again. Maybe he didn’t even open his eyes to see who it was and assumed it was his wife.
The thing is we don’t know what happened between the two in that bedroom before the wife came in and demanded the husband to take her home. He got mad at his wife…yes, he should have straightened out the stepsister…BUT if it’s really late in the night and he’s dead tired…I don’t blame him for being cranky and not wanting to get dressed and go driving.
If he had sided with the wife, maybe the girl would have cried and the whole house would have woken up causing tension in the family. The husband’s reaction does not necessarily indicate that he’s getting a cheap thrill.
I may ave thought that if the bed incident happened often or if him and the stepsister go on outings on their own often…but they don’t even leave the home without the wife…we haven’t heard of him giving stepsis any gifts or cheap compliments or getting touchy feely with her or staring her up and down and following her with his eyes…to so confidently say that he’s getting a cheap thrill or that he’s interested in her.
Now the girl on the other hand…
she wasn’t asleep…her mind was not in a sleep-induced-incoherency state. She was awake…and more aware of her actions.
The first time she went into their room…she could have slept next to the OP instead of next to her husband. But she didn’t.
The fan is not a reasonable excuse and OP should have been clever enuf to stop her and adjust the fan settings or give her another chaadar or send her to her neglectful mommy’s room.
Fan was a lame excuse. And the girl, for the SECOND time (a repeat offense) goes to the husband. He might not have been thinking clearly out of sleepiness…at least he has this excuse…but what excuse does she have? None! She can’t even use her age as an excuse cuz 15-year-olds tend to know better unless there’s an intellectual impairment.
THIS!
Thing is if something was really going on with the sister and husband, then they wouldn’t be stupid enough to make it obvious and sleep together in the same bed as the wife would they?! IF something was actually going on, then they wouldn’t be doing it so overtly would they?