Re: In-law problems
If she’s close to you and you trust her without a doubt and are absolutely certain that she doesn’t have an agenda…then talk to her. Explain to her that the intention is not to hurt or avoid her, but a married couple needs their privacy sometimes and there are boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed (the bedroom issue). Maybe she never witnessed a healthy interaction between her own parents and doesn’t quite know what’s acceptable behavior. Encourage her to have friends her own age…maybe even consider getting her to invite school friends over…so that she becomes more comfortable socializing with her own age group. Act based on ur intuition then, OP. I’d be curious to know how she reacts after u have a talk with her…as in will she understand and cooperate with you …OR…will she become more stubborn and draw closer to your husband? Her reaction may give u a better idea about her intentions.