Why would you want to put urself put there and be someone your not.? Stop trying so hard.. Being overconfident can sometimes be intimidating for guys.. Or a cocky attitude no aubty jee will approach. Just relax. Just because they approach dont mean u have to say yes.
Why would you want to put urself out there and be someone your not.? Stop trying so hard.. Being overconfident can sometimes be intimidating for guys.. Or a cocky attitude no aunty jee will approach. Just relax. Just because they approach dont mean u have to say yes.
If you have choice, good for you. Go for the best one but don’t make it public. Seems like you are trying to collect wow factor…anyway…make sure the “one” you choose dosn’t win your heart just cuz of good looking factor…should have a heart of gold too…as a nice heart and nature will last for ever…
I absolutely agree with you!!! He needs to have a heart of gold not just looks. I personally feel that we have the option to make ourselves more competitive if we willingly work on our weaknesses to increase our chances. Rationally speaking, I believe it is in our ability to create more marriage options for ourselves if we focus on character building deficiencies.
Don’t try so hard that you forget your own self and individuality in the rat race. Wouldn’t you want to look good and presentable for yourself more than anyone else? Or be the best person that you can be for yourself and in the eyes of Allah, than to make yourself more in demand? What will happen once that demand is over and you finally get married, you become the normal way you are, or what?
Okay, so you’ve basically answered your own question.
Maintaining your looks is important, but develop some healthy confidence within yourself. If you feel that you’re deficient in something or some skills, then work on them. But do it for yourself more than for getting the guy. Be yourself, use common sense when you speak and act, and just relax. When you try too hard…you can easily put more pressure on yourself…which can prevent you from thinking clearly/making sound decisions about your future, etc.
You need to become a better person for yourself within, not for some dude… Don’t sell yourself so cheap by being what people like and want you to be. Be true. Dont give a crap if people like it or not. It’s way more attractive.
if impressing aunties at every event was the main goal of a girl then everyone would use fair and lovely daily, pack on powder on their face like a geisha, starve themselves (but then also get breast augmentation so they had curves), grow their hair up to their wait, and major in something that would help them cook food/clean clothes/be subservient.